Ambiguity
Recently I posted this on Facebook: "Apparently there is a substantial body of research which indicates that if you talk about a goal — finishing your novel, climbing a mountain, eating all two dozen fresh-baked cookies in one sitting — you are LESS likely to achieve it. Whoa, that's not been my experience, just the opposite. Then again, I'm often deluded. What about you out there in Facebooklandia? To speak or not to speak, that is the question."Later, in response to the lively conversation that ensued, I wrote: "I easily found research to support both sides of this discussion. So I guess there's not a right or wrong to it, just what works, and what works is very individual. For me, stating my goals helps, especially if I break them down into specific, doable steps, e.g. in order to be ready to climb Mt Rainier in August I am going to go for a trail run today. Or with my writing: on Monday I'm going to finish the second draft of the next 3 scenes of my YA novel. On Tuesday I'm going to shoot for 3 more. By the end of the week I hope to have reached the midpoint of the story. Oops, there it is — I've said it out loud, and in public. Will I go for a run, even though it's raining, and write a bunch next week? I will report the results of this very limited research project as the data comes in."